Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair

(axios.com)

220 points | by karimf 1 hour ago

38 comments

  • cladopa 27 minutes ago
    If you are one of the most powerful man on earth you are going to be the target of all the secret services of all powerful countries. Period.

    It is their job. You take decisions that are worth billions, you influence people that take decisions that are worth billions, and affect their countries.

    They are going to study you for years. Your personality type and that of the people around you. Your weaknesses. Your problems and that of your family.

    They will employ the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world to create the perfect Honey trap.

    Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

    It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams.

    • mosura 6 minutes ago
      A significant proportion of the people I know that won the startup lottery ended up losing the money when the girl they were into at high school flies themselves at them, has their kids, then goes back to the dude they were with before with the kids and child support, and this is relatively small fry and without any possible gov involvement.

      The people in here acting like they would be immune to all this are kidding themselves.

    • bonoboTP 15 minutes ago
      Huh, makes you wonder why this isn't available overboard via expensive matchmaking. And if it is why doesn't he use it.
      • corndoge 5 minutes ago
        A plausible reason would be that he was not looking to have an affair but rather was actively seduced. Someone not looking to have an affair would not use a matchmaking service.
    • stephc_int13 11 minutes ago
      True, to some extent. But also, he should know and see it coming, and people in his entourage should also see it and be briefed/watched by services.
      • ip26 5 minutes ago
        It's a cat and mouse game. Obviously, the adversary will in turn do everything in their power to make it look natural and get past that kind of defensiveness.

        Perhaps as far as to say, the only suspicious thing about the perfect agent would be the lack of anything to be suspicious of.

    • jcranmer 2 minutes ago
      It's... really not that hard. All you have to do is be content with what you have, and not go lusting after new opportunities. Although granted, anyone who can pull that off probably isn't going to be a multibillionaire CEO, because that's the kind of personality selected against among CEOs.

      But if you're married, with kids, and you're willing to throw that away to chase someone else, I'd argue you have a serious personality flaw going on there.

    • slashnode 21 minutes ago
      stop making excuses for these people.
      • neya 1 minute ago
        "these people" ?
    • fantasizr 25 minutes ago
      few of us can imagine the problems that come with being that type of leader/ceo. Knowing who trust and who is using you is a challenge
    • method_capital 20 minutes ago
      Sign me up!
    • Teever 1 minute ago
      While the dynamic for the physical security of the rich and powerful has changed a bit due to drones, up until recently it was neigh impossible for the common person to threaten the physical security of someone like this, or for nation-states to do so without being noticed.

      That meant that the only way to attack these people was a soft attack in the form of social interactions or social media and as such it's always struck me as extremely foolish for these kinds of people to let themselves be preyed upon in this manner.

      Like they have teams of people who keep them physically safe, but not mentally safe, so in the age of social media a motivated attacker can, with enough cleverness[0][1] directly reach the mind of someone who otherwise couldn't be reached.

      Why does that happen?

      I think it's not so much because they're juicy targets that entities with unlimited resources can meticulously target like you describe but because people like Jensen Huang or Bill Gates are very technically competent they probably lack the social skills so they're too often the Michael Scott to the Todd Packer in situations like this[2] and when a hint of opportunity to be sexually promiscuous is presented to them they seize on it without thinking of the consequences.

      Think of the married blue collar dudes who pick up bored divorcees at some dive sports bar after watching the big game and then drive home drunk, juggling multiple mistresses and a family life with relative ease for years.

      A manager like Jensen Huang may be able to handle multiple business units but he can't manage a single mistress handling his unit because that just isn't his skill set.

      [0] https://gwern.net/doc/www/web.archive.org/5e00c6993450adc597...

      [1] https://www.npr.org/2010/06/08/127564512/for-the-love-of-goo...

      [2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-Ci_oopVTk

    • corndoge 9 minutes ago
      Or the woman was in fact not a spy and that's the story to get this sympathetic reaction.

      we will never know

    • OtherShrezzing 2 minutes ago
      > Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

      I think most normal people have tried Doritos at some point, which are the flavour-equivalent of what you’re describing here. It’s food designed to satisfy your human needs and desires.

    • xboxnolifes 5 minutes ago
      All of this makes sense assuming you aren't married. An affair is still an affair. If it was just about finding the perfect partner, he should have gotten a divorce first.
    • yread 14 minutes ago
      I don't know... I mean I'm just a CEO of a one man company and even I get suspicious when a woman is too nice to me. Surely, with more responsibility you should get even more paranoid
    • steve_taylor 11 minutes ago
      All that effort only to discover Jensen likes what every man likes.
      • peri-cl 9 minutes ago
        Expensive video cards?
    • afavour 12 minutes ago
      So you keep it in your pants. I mean, come on.

      > Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

      She’s a woman, not a sweet from Willy Wonka’s factory. If you find yourself thinking “wow, she couldn’t be more perfect, it’s like she’s too good to be true” then perhaps as the CEO of a billion dollar company with national security concerns you should consider hey, maybe she is too good to be true? Maybe look into that?

      All else aside, if you find yourself being tempted, you make sure she isn’t around you. The CEO compensation more than makes up for your sacrifice.

    • tauwauwau 15 minutes ago
      Sure, so its a given that they will fall to such tricks? If that's the case, may be don't develop a one person cult of personality and power. They're paid enough to look out for precisely for these things so that they don't make mistakes that'll ruin 100s of people's lives, yet they don't have such concerns when making stupid decisions. He is not designing chips, burning midnight oil on trying to figure out how to dissipate enough heat to get best performance from the chip, the kind of problems that actually are consequential. He is the pizza guy, yet cant do that well.
    • giancarlostoro 23 minutes ago
      Makes you wonder if this is why Elon just doesn’t stay attached to one person.

      But another reason why as someone of such a high caliber you should never be alone with other women. Always have a bodyguard or something, surely you can afford someone…

      • andsoitis 10 minutes ago
        > But another reason why as someone of such a high caliber you should never be alone with other women.

        That would preclude having a meeting with a female unless there's a bodyguard but not need one when you're meeting with a guy?

        That would be quite weird.

        Just keep your dick in your pants.

      • ChrisMarshallNY 2 minutes ago
        This is likely a reason that they use escort services (like those provided by a certain "hung" pimp), and they tend to marry very high-profile folks. It's not about having a "trophy spouse," but having someone that can't really leverage you.
      • lukan 20 minutes ago
        "you should never be alone with other women. Always have a bodyguard or something"

        I mean, each to his own, but there are times when I would not want a bodyguard involved.

    • testbjjl 10 minutes ago
      But you know, she doesn’t really want you, unless you let yourself.
  • DeepLogin 53 minutes ago
    • intunderflow 44 minutes ago
      Given the news article is paywalled can mods please replace the URL with this one ^
      • rc1 32 minutes ago
        The official Nvida article only mentions national security concerns and does not bluntly say, as this one does, in its opening:

        > admitted to having a romantic relationship with a suspected Chinese spy

        • markdown 25 minutes ago
          So it definitely should be changed. The Nvidia one is factual, while the other one is tabloid speculation.

          He admitted to having a relationship with a woman.

          There's a separate question of whether the woman was a spy.

          • rc1 11 minutes ago
            People reading the nvida article will be wondering what is suspected. Probably why this article is trending as well as the original.

            Whether tabloid, or completely inaccurate, Nvida make reference to it and that there is an independent investigation. It is not wrong for people to wonder what that is given they mention it.

          • avazhi 11 minutes ago
            > There's a separate question of whether the woman was a spy.

            I mean, it's pretty clear it was a spy. Have a look at WSJ, NYT, etc. It isn't tabloidish to say so.

      • vhiremath4 40 minutes ago
        There is another thread dedicated to the nvidia newsroom disclosure: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50416801
        • DeepLogin 31 minutes ago
          That's not the same link.
          • vhiremath4 27 minutes ago
            Welp can’t remove it now that there’s a reply. My bad you are correct.
      • mmooss 28 minutes ago
        I disagree. Giving NVIDIA / Huang the stage and a microphone is begging for disinformation. Legitimate reporters can provide context, important information omitted by NVIDIA/Huang, and fact-checking.
      • creatonez 29 minutes ago
        Strongly disagree with changing it to that URL. This the kinda news you don't want to get from an involved primary source... that page is missing a crucial detail (the national security concern mentioned is espionage) and could just disappear whenever it becomes convenient to get the news cycle on the next thing. It will almost certainly be a 404 Not Found by the time 3 years have passed.
        • DeepLogin 25 minutes ago
          Then there could be a second archive link.

          I mean they are literally the same article in essence. One is from the official source and the other is paywalled with nothing worthy added.

          The choice is clear.

  • ilaksh 16 minutes ago
    Take this with a grain of salt, but my guess is that the board on some level has to judge him as being so high performing that they would try to keep him as long as that doesn't cause too much PR damage to the company, or the deals get them in too much trouble with the government.

    This is just a total guess, but I assume what a lot of the board want is for him to sell as much to China or indirect channels as he can get away with. So whatever these deals were that involved this woman, they probably want him to get those deals through it he can get away with it (although they wouldn't admit it).

    I see this more or less as Huang doing his job. And relative to international expectations at that level of wealth, one public affair is probably not something most of the board (presumably largely male) is going to (privately) judge him for.

    So if the board is investigating, I assume what they are trying to figure out is if the US government is going to do anything (probably not) or waiting to see if there is going to be some kind of public demand for him to be removed. Or it there is something likely to come out that will cause either of those things.

    • avazhi 10 minutes ago
      The board is investigating because the woman he had the affair with is a Chinese spy.

      Neither the board nor the US government nor investors nor the average person gives a shit about a CEO having an affair as long it doesn't compromise his ability to do his job well.

      • seanmcdirmid 5 minutes ago
        Alleged Chinese spy unless I’m reading the article wrong? A Chinese intelligence asset could mean someone who just had CPC membership in college. Not that I’m saying Alice Huang isn’t a spy, I just would want more information before deciding.
      • dannyw 3 minutes ago
        Chinese spy can mean everything from “sell us more GPUs to China or I leak our affair” (which I think NVDA would be very happy with - they’ve already admitted to chip diversion, and their senior execs have been arrested for the same) to trade secrets being given to Huawei.

        IMHO, I’m speculating, but I think the affair could’ve happened first, and then the MSS got involved for access and blackmail.

        There is, after all, statistically a high correlation with rich billionaires and infidelity…

  • ionwake 37 minutes ago
    I feel uncomfortable asking in a thread like this but why would a CEO talk about his private life publically?

    I know others have said this is a carefully written statement, but in my culture I would feel it would be rude not to keep it private? Sorry if this sounds autistic.

    • ethanj8011 35 minutes ago
      Mainly because the person he was having the affair with was a customer of the company and because they are reported to have possibly been a spy for the Chinese government. All of these things have a direct impact on the confidence of employees.
      • nonfamous 18 minutes ago
        I’d imagine as with most big companies having a relationship with a customer is a big HR violation. So at least that aspect would have to be addressed.
    • barbacoa 33 minutes ago
      It's being reported that the girl he was involved with was spying for China and this was some kind of honey pot operation.
    • peeters 30 minutes ago
      There are some things shareholders have to legitimately reckon with, that warrant a statement:

      - Is this person susceptible to blackmail from the secrets they're keeping?

      - Has this person performed a notable breach of trust?

      - Has this person displayed a notable lack of judgement?

      Even when the alleged misconduct is private, #1 is of particular concern. Airing it out is an obvious way to lessen that specific concern. The allegations here raise the other concerns too, however.

    • hoppp 25 minutes ago
      I agree that cheating or not their private life is theirs, I'm not interested in their family drama.

      However if he cheated with a chinese spy then he was targeted by China and that raises this to a national security risk.

    • yeeetz 36 minutes ago
      it's a public company, he's ceo, large implications for stock movements, corporate strategy, volatility if it goes to us govt intervention, divorce court, etc
    • urams 34 minutes ago
      Because he got honey potted by a CCP spy which specifically puts himself and Nvidia at risk.
    • wrexx0r 31 minutes ago
      It seems to be a combination of things First off, hhe person he was having an affair with has ties to Chinese Spy agencies (not sure the ties, but either way, not a great look for someone trying to be deeply involved with America's government)

      It also sounds like it was known something was going on with foreign agencies and Jensen, do this puts it out in the open and clears the air.

      Lastly, if anyone was trying to use the affair as leverage over him, the best way to break the leverage is to just come out and spill the tea yourself (so to speak)

    • bluegatty 25 minutes ago
      He's forced to - he would not make the statement unless he had to come clean with it.
    • elorant 20 minutes ago
      So that no one can extort him in private. Same happened with Bezos when his phone was hacked. He was the one who came forward to speak about what was shared by his phone.
      • ChrisMarshallNY 12 minutes ago
        If I remember, the perpetrators were determined to be the Saudis. I don't remember the reason, but they had an axe to grind.

        I never got to (or wanted to) see the images, but, by all reports, he ... er ... had nothing to be ashamed of.

    • vigilantpuma 25 minutes ago
      I could see how it’s rude for a CEO to be bringing up his affairs, but how is it rude to address public revelations?
    • TheAlchemist 32 minutes ago
      Generally speaking, it's normal to keep it private.

      Unless the CEO happens to be the CEO of what is considered one of the most important company for national security and future, and his private life involves somebody who appears to be a spy for the biggest competitor for world hegemony. Then it's kind of big deal for everybody.

    • hackernud3s 22 minutes ago
      He's kicking off a redemption tour. The world will now decide if his tone is sincere enough, and how long it should take to forgive him.

      Not long I suspect, we don't expect much from tech CEOs. Nobody even remembers when Bezos cheated on his wife.

      • ahartmetz 8 minutes ago
        I guess no one noticed because they all looked the same. I imagine Bezos in the wife store like "Oh yeah, I like exactly that look. Gimme another one of these!"

        Everyone has some preferred types, but same body, different person is pretty creepy.

      • pimeys 8 minutes ago
        We'll get a kind of a "Gone Girl" moment but with geopolitics.
    • glitchbot 31 minutes ago
      Because the purpose was to get leverage, and Intel. Once she couldn't gather passive Intel, they would use the affair as blackmail, ole school is the best school.
    • xhevahir 35 minutes ago
      Because there's a question whether this woman is working covertly for a country that's known to do a lot of industrial espionage.
    • butternet 36 minutes ago
      In this instance the two have become linked due to his choices, hence the need to explain.
    • Keyframe 27 minutes ago
      I wrote in another thread here, this is extremely serious:

      Bedding an adversarial entity's agent in a regulated field is a serious matter (for the company) with potentially serious consequences. It can lead to executive decapitation, it can even lead to / criminal investigations if the operative bypassed export controls using executive proximity.. the fallout can be great and widespread.

      It can also be a nothingburger and an amusing page six divorce story in the end where we all read how rich cry as well. Time will tell. What's telling of where this might lead and how serious it is, is that it was US federal government that warned about this.

    • bradlys 16 minutes ago
      When we give individuals the same power as people in highest legal positions of power - they deserve immense scrutiny.

      Jensen is as powerful as any politician, if not more so. Same with Elon, etc.

      If you don't want that then get rid of the ability for such individuals to amass so much power.

    • umeshunni 33 minutes ago
      The person he has an affair with turned out to be a Chinese spy and he's being investigated by the government for this.
    • RetardedBastard 25 minutes ago
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  • danpalmer 50 minutes ago
    How integral is Huang to the success of Nvidia? As much as he seems to have done a good job, he appears less integral than with some companies like Bezos/Amazon or Zuckerberg/Meta (whether these are/were or not is besides the point, they are seen as such).

    I'd expect a board to fire a CEO over this, so he will have to be critical to the business, more than a normal CEO is critical, to survive. The market reaction to him going would also be interesting. Seems like the markets are starting to figure out what the value is here.

    • bluegatty 22 minutes ago
      "I'd expect a board to fire a CEO over this, "

      God god, no.

      There's very little he could ever accidentally tell someone that would matter that much.

      Other than handing over very detailed schemas etc, there's almost nothing important he could tell them.

      Maybe some future ideas and plans, maybe some government things about the Administration, it's small peanuts.

      Nvidia is an operational success, their IP is embedded within deep layers of know how and expertise.

      He's the 'father' of that org, he set the tone, they like him there.

      Nvidia would risk being an Intel without him.

      • danpalmer 19 minutes ago
        A spy like this isn't looking for chip schematics, they're looking for strategy. Strategy that comes from the CEO. Ultimately the main thing a CEO brings is judgement, and this was extremely poor judgement.
        • bluegatty 16 minutes ago
          Strategy changes all the time. It will change overnight with the election results. What matters most is the information underlying that strategy, like, if ASML was coming out with some very specific new thing that would tilt the industry - that would be key.
    • andsoitis 31 minutes ago
      > How integral is Huang to the success of Nvidia?

      He's the visionary behind what they do and the person who influences industries around him to make it real.

    • jsw97 47 minutes ago
      Navigating this political/diplomatic climate is key to Nvidia's success, and he appears to be driving that? In normal times maybe it would be different.
    • dingaling911 50 minutes ago
      I think his fear of failing is the reason for their success.
    • agnosticmantis 16 minutes ago
      I hope he at least gets a nice severance package in that scenario. Tough job market in tech right now.
    • plaidfuji 24 minutes ago
      My understanding is that he has something like 50 direct reports. Which would make him a pretty major single point of failure.
    • iambateman 41 minutes ago
      We’re going to find out tomorrow and I suspect in this case the answer starts with a B.
    • hoppp 23 minutes ago
      I'm skeptical that he gets fired for this. The "Spy I loved" James bond style twist combined with his iconic leather jacket might actually come off as badass.
    • teknologist 47 minutes ago
      How integral is Nvidia to the success of LLMs? Seems like a few companies could step in and put that TSMC capacity to good use...
      • Tadpole9181 17 minutes ago
        I'm sorry, who exactly? NVIDIA essentially has no real competition because of how wildly successful they are.
        • danpalmer 5 minutes ago
          Google, Microsoft, Amazon, AMD, Apple, Huawei...

          These aren't all entirely drop-in replacements, there are some trade-offs involved, but there are many companies with alternatives that could take Nvidia's market if they stall.

    • gcbgcb 14 minutes ago
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    • mjr00 43 minutes ago
      Not to sound too negative but IMO NVidia has largely been "right place, right time" and I don't think Huang has had much to do with it. NVidia made computer graphics cards and CUDA long ago; they just happened to be in the right place, twice, in quick succession: first crypto/blockchain, then AI, neither of which they really had any part in boosting. It's like they set up a general store that sells pickaxes and drills, then someone found gold in the mountain right next to them, and then the goldmine ran out but someone found oil right under them.

      The one big thing I will given Huang credit for is not going all-in on blockchain and recognizing it as a bubble. NVidia never really pivoted from their core business/customers to support crypto miners, unlike what they're doing with AI.

      • solyin 23 minutes ago
        There were a lot of computer graphics cards manufacturers back in the 90's. Nvidia survived amongst the whole pack of them. 3dfx, Matrox, S3, ATI, Cirrus. How much of that is soley due to Jenson vs outside factors outside of his control, only he really knows, but I think her deserves a bit more credit than right place right time. CUDA was a very expensive investment with zero guarantee of payoff. The market could have gone an entirely different way and Nvidia would have failed.
        • mjr00 16 minutes ago
          That's fair. NVidia's execution has been rock solid for as long as they've been around and Huang deserves credit for that. But I would say most of the reason they've 100x'd since 2017 has been external forces.
      • est31 38 minutes ago
        > first crypto/blockchain, then AI, neither of which they really had any part in boosting.

        Nvidia boosts AI a lot. They are the central bank of AI. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49673098

        • mjr00 33 minutes ago
          Maybe the verb tense was unclear. NVidia currently boosts AI, for obvious reasons. But OpenAI was the company who did all of the legwork to make AI into an industry, with some minor support from NVidia. NVidia wouldn't have 10x'd since 2022 without OpenAI.
          • est31 8 minutes ago
            AI has been a (minor but existing) industry before OpenAI. E.g. Deepmind exists since 2010, 6 years before OpenAIs founding. Sure, OpenAI has contributed to it, in great deals, but Nvidia has always been there during the growth of AI. In 2012, AlexNet has been trained on GTX 580 GPUs, in 2016 AlphaGo used Nvidia GPUs, etc.
      • SXX 28 minutes ago
        To be honest other hardware companies had years to catch up to Cuda and ML, but they invested shit into their software stacks.

        Even when AI boom was imminient but 10 times smaller 2-3 years ago they did not invested heavily enough and Nvidia went all in.

        I have no clue what percent of that decision making was Huang, but all the competition leadership was certainly incompetent.

        So at least he did built company with a good leadership. Its a fact. Even if I personally dont like Nvidia or its products.

      • javier2 41 minutes ago
        Yeah, they had been working on CUDA for a very long time before AI turned out to be interesting again.
      • hcta 28 minutes ago
        > they just happened to be in the right place, twice, in quick succession

        that is generally what it looks like when someone is smarter than you

        • mjr00 24 minutes ago
          > that is generally what it looks like when someone is smarter than you

          Maybe. This is also what everyone said about Elon for a long time, though.

          • CamperBob2 17 minutes ago
            It's not that Musk is not smart, he's just erratic, and growing increasingly so. He is the Howard Hughes of our day. They will find his body in an expensive hotel room at some point, surrounded by bottles of his own urine.
      • xiaoyu2006 28 minutes ago
        The had the insight to develop and promote CUDA long before DL was a thing. IIRC AlexNet was when CUDA really paid off.
      • altmanaltman 30 minutes ago
        Yeah, but in this case they also built the pickaxes and drills and did it better than any other pickaxe and drill builder. In your analogy, they are commodities and a shop like that can be set up by anyone. But in this case, that doesn't apply. And if you look at their sales composition, they never pivoted away from gaming, but data centers clearly became ludicrously more attractive in the AI era. But they were always very good at computing triangles, perhaps the best in the world. They were lucky that market forces made that computation very valuable but they were not lucky in their ability to build it.
        • mjr00 21 minutes ago
          I do agree! They execute extremely well and Huang deserves praise for that. I just don't see him as a visionary leader shaping the industry in the same way that e.g. Jobs was. In an alternate world where the NSA doesn't create bitcoin and OpenAI is never founded, NVidia would be a stable, reliable producer of consumer electronic parts.
  • flowerlad 48 minutes ago
    Now we have to re-evaluate all his statements in favor of selling to China. For example, we want China to build on "our stack". On the face of it, that seems correct. If China has multiple stacks to pick from why wouldn't we want them to pick our stack? But do they have such a choice?
    • tsunamifury 31 minutes ago
      He has been openly advocating to selling to China.
      • markdown 19 minutes ago
        As have most. Some, like Tesla and Apple, even have factories there!!!
        • est31 4 minutes ago
          Apple has connections so great that United even introduced a whole airport leg SFO-PVG just for them (unless it's an urban legend).
    • flowerlad 26 minutes ago
      Another is the pretense of overcoming Chinese resistance. China sent a cute spy to bang the CEO of Nvidia, but they simultaneously set a "strict limit" on import of Nvidia chips. How does that make sense? It makes sense if the purpose of the "strict limit" is so that any sale of H200 to China can be seen as overcoming Chinese restrictions. Anything that is against the Chinese government's resistance must be good for the US, right?
      • nemomarx 23 minutes ago
        It could be that they wanted design information and other details from him, and were going to use those to build up domestic manufacturing alongside import restrictions.

        It's hard to say from the outside what the goals would be - pushing him in certain directions, extracting intel, etc.

        • flowerlad 21 minutes ago
          > It could be that they wanted design information and other details from him

          For this it would be much easier if the Chinese spies banged Nvidia engineers.

          • interlocutor 4 minutes ago
            We don't know that this is not happening.
  • shrubble 6 minutes ago
    In parts of Asia it is "expected" that a successful politician or businessman will have a "second family". I'm thinking the spying part (Huang is from Taiwan and was possibly leaking info to China) is considered worse than the cheating part by everyone involved.
    • losthubble 0 minutes ago
      US probably cares about the 2bil worth of gpus she brought. This looks like it will get messy.
  • shock-value 6 minutes ago
    Incredibly sad and demoralizing to see the rationalizations and excuses people are making for this behavior in the comments here (or for the likely lack of professional consequences). But I guess these are the times in which we live.
  • iambateman 42 minutes ago
    I heard a guy I respect say “there’s a short list of things people will ruin their lives for.”

    I’m not sure if this will ruin Jensen’s life or not, but it’s a good opportunity for us all to remember that the short-term high is usually not worth it.

    • rustyhancock 35 minutes ago
      Jensen carries the responsibility here for sure.

      But I'm not sure how hard it would be to resist a honey trap.

      I mean a state sponsored enterprise to get you to have sex with someone (or one of a group of people).

      Getting him to have sex with her was literally this woman's day job and she was probably told it was a matter of national security.

      It is quite absurd once you think about it.

    • giwook 35 minutes ago
      Easier said than done. Especially when we’re not thinking logically which is surprisingly and disappointingly too often.
      • chasd00 8 minutes ago
        “God gave men enough blood to run their brain or penis but not enough for both” - robin williams
    • voidfunc 40 minutes ago
      There is zero percent chance the board does anything to Jensen.

      His likely ex-wife is about to be very rich tho.

      • dannyw 36 minutes ago
        We don’t know the extent of what happened. My first thought, given MegaSpeed, is chip diversion.

        How much of NVIDIA’s sales and revenues is actually to China? Would that be allowed to happen still?

      • caminante 33 minutes ago
        I'll take the other side of the wife -> ex-wife bet. He was photographed publicly with the "spy" and has been signing boobs.

        If the camel had a back, then it was already broken, IMHO.

    • Betelbuddy 38 minutes ago
      Betcha this is going to turn into: He was being blackmailed but decided to pull a David Letterman on it...
    • hackernud3s 21 minutes ago
      > the short-term high is usually not worth it.

      People continue to under-value the spank bank. SMH.

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  • dzonga 12 minutes ago
    or sometimes - you shed the image of being a family man & embrace being a 'player'

    the reason bond was made - was the guy who the novel was based on - being a double-agent couldn't be honey-trapped as he was already womanizing.

  • method_capital 44 minutes ago
    I'm not sure what actual letters like this are supposed to achieve (besides protecting his ass I mean). Are employees supposed to stand beside their fallen leader, are they supposed to go about their business differently? Anybody having affairs with subordinates can't be trusted to make good judgement calls with respect to internal leadership / delegation, at least it wouldn't seem so to me.
    • kraken_cult 43 minutes ago
      It's better than not having a statement and have rumours flying everywhere.
      • method_capital 39 minutes ago
        Well the only reason we have the letter is because rumors were flying everywhere and an investigation has been initiated.
      • dieselgate 38 minutes ago
        Agreed. It's due diligence and saving face; at least he owns it?
    • twodave 8 minutes ago
      It sounds like your problem lies more in his mistake, not in coming clean about it. Him being the one to do that takes any influence the woman had over him away.
  • net01 25 minutes ago
    are there trainings on honey traps, like waht can a company do to prevent this ?? i just feel bad for his wife and also him
    • zulux 15 minutes ago
      I came into some fair amount of power, and the CCP honey pot shenanigans got crazy. I didn't get in-person treatment, but the DMs were off the hook. A Cantonese businessman warned me, but I have to admit it could have worked if I had been in the wrong frame of mind.

      They tried every persona: Sexy, shy, homely. Same sex. Confrontational. Open, but scared her overseers would punish her. Still get a ping now and then.

  • goodcake3963 55 minutes ago
    With all the money he has, he fell to this
    • MiroslavPokorny 51 minutes ago
      Do i really need to remind you of all the orange team ?
  • anuptalwalkar 34 minutes ago
    Would this lead to him stepping down or dialing it up? NVDIA will be fine with either way, but how much does he really adds to its value?
  • calvinmorrison 51 minutes ago
    If you're the CIA, wouldn't you want to plant employees, or 'hire' employees at major firms like this? I guess I assume they do already. Probably each major corporation has 10-50+ employees getting kick backs from the government.
    • derektank 19 minutes ago
      The US intelligence agencies would have a hard time planting employees in US firms while remaining within the bounds of FISA. They certainly have assets inside major Chinese firms though, of course.
    • jackweirdy 49 minutes ago
      They do, according to Jonna Mendez, but those placed don’t collect a company salary, only a government salary. This causes some contention since they are paid far less than salaried employees and get no equity, so it leads to high turnover
      • JoshTriplett 23 minutes ago
        > but those placed don’t collect a company salary, only a government salary

        Technically, they collect the company salary, and then the CIA reduces their pay by the same amount.

        At one point, they couldn't keep any excess if the company pay was higher. Now, they're apparently allowed to keep an amount that doesn't significantly exceed comparable federal pay.

  • logicallee 10 minutes ago
    This is not newsworthy.
  • plant-ian 43 minutes ago
    I feel like every thing requires a tin foil hat now. Is this some last ditch ploy to stimulate noncompetitive regulation from the US government? I find it more difficult to trust anything these people say everyday.
    • plant-ian 39 minutes ago
      Just to be clear, this was probably already happening, but I can imagine the board being like "hmmmmm..... opportunity?" Then we see titles with "Chinese spy" plastered onto every major news network. Seems a little convenient to me.
  • wewewedxfgdf 26 minutes ago
    I don't give a shit about affairs - that's personal business.

    However if you lack the common sense to not fall for Chinese spies then your judgement really must be questioned.

    • hackernud3s 14 minutes ago
      If detecting spies required mere common sense, there would be no spies.
  • yunnpp 1 minute ago
    > My family bears no responsibility for my choices. I do. Please give them privacy.

    Props up the surveillance state with Palantir, requests privacy.

  • axegon_ 48 minutes ago
    At this point, we can safely start treating South Park as a documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3V2HxWrlqqE
  • tgma 40 minutes ago
    Given what we have seen happen at Supermicro, for example, CEO smuggling NVIDIA chips to China, it seems unlikely that no one at NVIDIA suspected a thing. Why wouldn't they want to bolster their China business?

    An "exposure" of affair[1] could very well be the best coverup: "couldn't control my dick" is the ultimate plausible deniability. Timing also makes sense. Better open an investigation and get it closed while this Congress is still in power, as the next one is going to be more in bed in LLM companies than hardware.

    [1]: The other party is overtly a customer, not some random individual.

    • Betelbuddy 35 minutes ago
      Supermicro is a company who has a massive scandal every 3 years...go check...
  • dietr1ch 23 minutes ago
    PSA: Don't tell your wife that you are now technically cheating on the other woman
  • augment_me 46 minutes ago
    Apart from his direct family, who cares? Why is this an issue? It's 2026, we literally had a human child trafficking ring with multiple presidents involved and it didnt lead to anything or move the needle on stuff.
    • anon7725 42 minutes ago
      The leader of the central company in the AI boom was compromised by a spy from the US’s biggest adversary while US and Chinese companies are in an AI arms race.

      Would that count?

      • fastily 39 minutes ago
        We have a sitting president who freely shares state secrets with dictators upon request. This seems rather high effort when they could’ve just asked nicely no? </s>
        • dolebirchwood 34 minutes ago
          Is whataboutism really necessary?
          • fastily 30 minutes ago
            the </s> is for sarcasm..
          • fc417fc802 28 minutes ago
            It isn't whataboutism if it's directly relevant to the point at hand (as opposed to attempting to distract from it). The question posed effectively amounted to "why is this particularly noteworthy compared to everything else of a vaguely similar nature that's been going on".
        • DragonStrength 14 minutes ago
          That president's board (US voters) just put him on a much shorter leash as a result. Actions, consequences, etc.
        • dinkumthinkum 27 minutes ago
          I know you are trying to make some point for your political team but if you look up what a fiduciary is then you will see why this would be a good thing and a way to avoid other legal issues. But I know, OMB and all that!
    • stingraycharles 43 minutes ago
      It’s an issue because for some reason the US intelligence agency decided to go public with this and then the newspapers started running with it.

      This letter is just part of the ceremony of events that is expected to happen afterwards.

      • jryle70 10 minutes ago
        Huh? CEO's private life has always always been a big deal. These were just a few cases the last few years alone:

        https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/coldplay-kiss-c...

        Jensen Huang's case is even more high profile because of the spying accusation.

      • dannyw 33 minutes ago
        Probably more like the administration, given how they were briefed more than a year ago.

        There’s been recent power spats (JD Vance’s tweet, Susie being replaced by Steve Bannon, and probably more infighting).

        As much as I want to believe there’s greater 4D chess and motivation, I assign a modest probability to someone going “fuck it”, opening a massive short on NVDA, and then leaking it just for the love of insider trading. Rather than anything strategic or real.

    • bluegatty 21 minutes ago
      It's an issue, but vastly over stated in the press.
    • DragonStrength 43 minutes ago
      Integrity matters for maintaining corporate secrets. Someone who is having an extramarital affair is a target for blackmail. Most of getting a security clearance is not lying.
    • techblueberry 37 minutes ago
      Why does it matter that one of the key leaders of our aI strategy was having an affair with a Chinese spy while advising the president on our policy of selling chips to China?
    • fwlr 28 minutes ago
      The investors probably care. If you’ll lie to your wife to get laid, you might also lie to your investors to get paid.
    • Noaidi 42 minutes ago
      > Why is this an issue?

      She was also a Chinese spy.

      > It's 2026, we literally had a human child trafficking ring with multiple presidents involved and it didnt lead to anything or move the needle on stuff.

      He admitted to the affair. No one has admitted to being a pedo. Much less forgivable.

      • ryandrake 34 minutes ago
        Donald Trump's name appears in the Epstein files more often than Harry Potter's name appears in every Harry Potter book combined. I don't think we need him to admit it at this point.
  • tetrisgm 41 minutes ago
    His private life is irrelevant. He’s an adult and can do what he wants. It only matters if he spilled secrets to the spy
    • Barrin92 33 minutes ago
      It's obviously not irrelevant for two reasons, one practical one moral. The practical one is that you don't need to 'spill' secrets to a spy. Having one around you in private means you can be bugged, blackmailed, have your means of communication compromised and so on. It makes you vulnerable by definition.

      Secondly if he's willing to lie to his wife and family he's obviously willing to lie to anyone for much less. It tells you something about the character of a person, how can anyone trust a cheater?

  • the_duke 40 minutes ago
    The most interesting part might be that this is coming out so publicly.

    Someone leaked intelligence assessments to the New York Times.

    Maybe this was just a regular leak ... but ...

    Jensen/Nvidia has not been playing ball with other parts of the AI industry and the administration, pushing heavily against export bans and promoting open source models/companies , which is clearly against the interests of SpaceX/OpenAI/Anthropic.

    This is conspiracy theory territory, of course, but I wouldn't be too surprised if this was an intentional leak.

  • xyst 38 minutes ago
    Probably time to step down and take the golden parachute, Huang. Your AI generated letter is doing nothing.

    His fate will probably follow the Boston tech company CEO that got caught cheating with HR executive at a Coldplay concert.

  • ChrisArchitect 20 minutes ago
    Related:

    Statement from NVIDIA Board of Directors

    https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50416801

  • readthenotes1 1 hour ago
    I don't know if this is Jensen himself or his advisors, but if you're going to make an apology, this is the way to do it.

    There was, no deflection "this is not who I am", No blaming the spy.

    He owned up to his mistakes

    • adriand 53 minutes ago
      For sure he has excellent PR and comms advisors. He gets credit, I guess, for taking their advice, but none for betraying his wife and family. It speaks volumes that so much of the leadership class in American tech and business is so morally compromised.
      • reverend_gonzo 45 minutes ago
        For what it’s worth, I’m pretty sure many, if not most, humans in their position could be compromised in this way.

        It is one person, and your enemies have all the resources at your disposal.

        It is very easy to say, “I would never do X” but when you literally have a nation trying to get you do X, I presume it’s a lot harder.

        • Noaidi 41 minutes ago
          This is why I am content with being a nobody.
    • yodon 52 minutes ago
      Crisis communications is a real field. Most companies aren't prepared for it in advance and do it poorly as a result, but there are specialist consultants who are good at getting it right (source: close friend who did this kind of work for many years - it is not a pretty business, and often involves significant human failings).

      I don't mean to belittle the letter, but Jensen's PR firm undoubtedly helped with the letter and undoubtedly had advisors who specialize in this.

      • charlieyu1 25 minutes ago
        Owning a mistake is especially hard in the East Asian culture. It’s been a long time I have seen a public figure admitting his wrongdoings.
      • TheOtherHobbes 37 minutes ago
        Indeed.

        Anyone who believes he personally agonised over this alone in a darkened room is being rather naive.

      • shermantanktop 45 minutes ago
        Or, you know, you could be a stand up person and be genuinely contrite.

        He's a big time CEO and his company is impacted by how well he handles it. So of course there are PR/crisis people around. They specialize in making psychopaths look human.

        But leaders are where they are because they make good decisions - their character does matter. Calling in the image-fixer types to clean up your mistakes is easy mode.

        • TheOtherHobbes 31 minutes ago
          Being seduced by a foreign agent was neither a good decision, nor evidence of good character, nor proof of situational awareness.

          Can we assume this was a one-off because she was uniquely persistent and persuasive?

    • benzible 43 minutes ago
      As apologies go it’s skillfully done. But it’s almost entirely about his personal failings (the affair), and it leaves plenty of room for a slow-walked board investigation that will end with a report designed to look thorough while concluding nothing.

      Even if he didn’t know she was an intelligence asset, it’s hard to believe he didn’t at least suspect Megaspeed was a conduit to China. If you read the press reports, there were a ton of red flags.

      Nvidia has also said he’ll stay on as CEO while the investigation runs. I can’t think of many CEOs who would survive this, let alone without taking any time off.

    • greenchair 29 minutes ago
      Its all calculated down to the pretend patriot lines near the end even though he's constantly looking for ways to bypass export restrictions to sell to china.
  • Yajirobe 48 minutes ago
    first Ethan Klein, now Jensen Huang...
    • shoobiedoo 44 minutes ago
      The Ethan one is especially shocking because his whole shtick is being the "better man" compared to all the people he reacts to and sues. Throwing it all away just to doink a coworker is pretty out there
      • wmf 38 minutes ago
        People who brag about their ethics are compensating.
  • Noaidi 1 hour ago
    $NVDA down 2% pre-trading.
    • jjtheblunt 53 minutes ago
      how does that work, a movement pre-trading, since trading sets the price?

      is it pre consumer level trading, with institutional trading happening on different time windows?

    • 8note 53 minutes ago
      sounds like an easy buy, if it wasnt already way expensive.

      i guess we'll actually find out if he gave away useful nvidia secrets in years from now, but by then the tech might not matter all that much to Nvidia.

      he was cheating on his wife before now, and Nvidia was doing just fine

      • madaxe_again 29 minutes ago
        A forward PE of 11 ain't expensive. It's the cheapest it has been in a decade.
    • tcdent 44 minutes ago
      Tell me you don't know how the stock market works without telling me you don't know how the stock market works.
      • Noaidi 40 minutes ago
        I have a BA in Economics.
  • dnw 52 minutes ago
    At the end of the day we are all human.
    • hackernud3s 13 minutes ago
      At the beginning of the day too.
    • theandrewbailey 37 minutes ago
      All he had to do was wear leather jackets and sell enough GPUs to cause a global economic crash*, but he wanted just a little more.

      *Crash in progress.

    • jryan49 31 minutes ago
      Lol some of us are more "human" than others I guess.
  • holdingunsteady 1 hour ago
    Full text:

    Subject: A message to our company

    Body: "I owe my family and all of you an apology.

    I was unfaithful to my wife. My actions hurt her and our children. There is no excuse for what I did. I am deeply sorry.

    Throughout my life, my family has given me love and support. They deserve my honesty and loyalty. Instead, I let them down and damaged the life we built together. I take full responsibility for what I did and the hurt I caused, and I accept the criticism that comes with it.

    To my wife and family: I love you. I know an apology cannot undo what I have done. I hope our family will heal and that, over time, I can earn back your trust.

    To my colleagues at NVIDIA, including those I have worked alongside for decades, and to our board, partners, and shareholders around the world: you deserve better from me. Leading NVIDIA is the privilege of my life. My responsibility is to serve you and be worthy of your trust. I have fallen short of that responsibility. I am fully committed to NVIDIA and will work to earn back your confidence.

    Regarding the national security concerns raised in news reports, NVIDIA's Board of Directors has initiated an independent investigation. I support the investigation and will cooperate fully. I love our country and our company, and I am committed to protecting NVIDIA and supporting America's national security. I am proud and grateful to be an American.

    My family bears no responsibility for my choices. I do. Please give them privacy."

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  • carlos-menezes 50 minutes ago
    > To my wife and family: I love you.

    No, you do not.

    • iLemming 40 minutes ago
      That's unfair. Most people are helpless against trained mind-tricksters; anyone could fall into that trap. Don't tell me you have never wondered how soldiers returning from war stop having panic attacks and soiling their clothes after seeing a qualified shrink, who does nothing more than talk. Words alone can heal, convince and mislead you. We have no idea what that woman used to lure him. He's not some random guy from Ohio who cheats with a stripper, he's a high-value target. We're talking about Hitman 3 (videogame) level espionage here.
      • petit_robert 4 minutes ago
        >We have no idea what that woman used to lure him.

        Looking at her picture might provide a hint.

    • tetrisgm 46 minutes ago
      It’s possible to love someone and make mistakes
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      • serf 45 minutes ago
        You want to see how hot someone was to know whether or not it was worth potentially ruining your family and reputation while on top of the world?

        I can't even imagine someone that attractive.

        • dingaling911 24 minutes ago
          Marriage gets boring. Unfortunate truth. My suspicion is that Jensen was basically allowed to do it as long as it wasn't made public and if so, then this was def not the first time.

          It would be a strange coincidence if the first and only time he cheated on his wife was with an intelligence agent.

      • artemonster 47 minutes ago
        Its really funny how a person can have infinite resources to solve infinite real world problems and yet chooses to succumb to primitive monkey brain and tickle their dingdong instead
        • dingaling911 42 minutes ago
          Exactly. We are dingdong tickling monkeys. It's not beyond the realm of possibility.
  • kittikitti 53 minutes ago
    This is a humiliating incident for everyone in AI.
    • ctmlr 15 minutes ago
      To be specific the lack of op sec is very humiliating and of public concern. The affair aspect is between him and his wife, people are people and we have to assume those things will happen or else you'll inevitably will be caught lacking.
    • mbgerring 46 minutes ago
      Most of the Bay Area AI cult is one giant polycule, no one cares about Jensen Huang cheating on his wife.

      The US National Security blob certainly cares, but not because of the infidelity.

      • shermantanktop 42 minutes ago
        "Giant Polycule" would be a great band name.
      • mbgerring 44 minutes ago
        I guess that’s one good thing about the whole “sex cult” thing, that everyone in it is more or less immune to sexual blackmail. The trade-off being susceptibility to in-group sexual manipulation. Not sure if that’s better or worse tbh.
        • yeeetz 34 minutes ago
          it's actually rather comforting and egalitarian to think that everyone in the world is basically susceptible to sex